A Cruise Before College

A Cruise Before College

Mother-daughter cruises had been an annual tradition — but now she’s all grown up.

By Sherri Ziff

It was 8 a.m. on August 12, on a flight with my daughter, Rachel (almost 18), to Seattle where we’d board Holland America Line’s ms Oosterdam for a cruise to Alaska. Watching her fidget with her headphones, I flashed back to a similar moment eight summers ago, when we were on our way to San Francisco for our first cruise together aboard Crystal Cruises. Rachel loosened her headphones so I could hear “What Dreams Are Made Of,” by Hilary Duff. “It’s my favorite song, Mommy,” she whispered.

Have you ever wondered what life is about? / You could search the world and never figure it out

You don’t have to sail the oceans / Happiness is no mystery it’s / Here and now it’s you and me …

Open your eyes / This is what dreams are made of

My eyes opened wide. I realized that childhood is fleeting. I knew that happiness is here and now, and while you don’t have to sail the oceans, it is an amazing way to spend “you and me” time. My dream — that our adventure 10 years ago would be our first annual mother-daughter cruise — had come true.

This year’s cruise marked a milestone: two days after returning home, Rachel would leave for college. This cruise marked the end of childhood. Like a breeze on deck on a sticky August afternoon in Aruba, it was here and then it was gone….

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